Friday, November 21, 2014

One Month!

Caleb is 1 month old!


Weight: 9 lbs., 10 oz.

Length: 22”

Head Circumference: 14.75”

Diaper Size: 1

Clothing Size: 0-3 months

Super Caleb!

Nicknames: We often call him “Curious Caleb” because he loves to hold his head up and look around at everything!

Health: His tear ducts were blocked.  We were given an ointment to use for a week and massages to do.  After that treatment, one is better.  However, the other one still seems to be blocked.  So, I’ll probably be doing another round of the ointment on it.

Cute little yawn <3

Sleep: Caleb is beginning to do a long stretch at night.  He’s often going 6+ hours after his bedtime feeding.  So, he’s sleeping at least 5 hours straight and I’m getting around 4.5-5 hours.  It’s so nice!  However, he sometimes struggles to go back to sleep at that point.  A lot of the time, he’ll fall asleep if he’s laying on me, but he won’t stay asleep if I put him down.   He has spaced out his daytime feedings to about 4 hours apart.  I then do his bedtime one after 2 or 3 hours, which I think helps him go a bit longer overnight.  He’s having more awake/alert time during the day now.  It’s fun to have him awake (when he’s happy! Haha).

Diet: He’s just nursing.  He eats really well.  The only time it’s a “struggle” is if he is super hungry.  Then he gets angry :)  So, I have to calm him down before he’ll eat.  He did start spitting up some in the last week.  It doesn’t seem to bother him too much, though! :)  Early on, I had a big glass of milk and then Caleb seemed to have tummy-troubles the next day.  So, I’ve limited my milk to smaller portions, which he’s seemed to tolerate better.  Sometime here I’ll try more milk at once and see how he does.  I also cut out onions because I had them a couple of different times and he seemed to not want to nurse afterwards.  I’ll add those in at some point, too.  During his fussy times, I wonder if something I ate upset him but I haven’t noticed any other patterns yet…

Handsome little guy <3

Loves: He loves snuggles!  I love the way he cuddles up on my chest. 

Dislikes: Diaper changes, bath time, getting dressed… I think it’s just that he doesn’t like it when he’s not being held :)  So, I lay him down for those things and he gets upset.  It’s slowly improving though.  He doesn’t scream through EVERY diaper change anymore :)  I have also adjusted to dressing him while he lays in my lap sometimes, which seems to help.  Maybe he’ll like bath time more when it’s actually in the tub.

Milestones: Smiles!!!  You can’t always get a smile, but he’s definitely smiling.  His first real smile was while Pete was talking to him one night <3  All day that day he seemed like he was about to smile (his eyes were smiley, he was calm and pleasant, etc.) and I was afraid Pete was going to miss the real smile.  So, I was so happy that Caleb smiled for him!  I’ve found that he’s more likely to smile after he’s just eaten and had his diaper changed.  He usually doesn’t go right to sleep and he isn’t hungry, so it’s a good time!  A lot of the time I can get him to smile for me by singing to him (I Love You, a Bushel & a Peck; You are My Sunshine; We Love You, Caleb, etc… :) ) He was really smiley on his one month birthday.  We were at a friend’s baby shower.  It was fun because some of my family got to see his smiles too!

He's so wiggly :)

Baby Gear Love: Fisher Price Rock & Play!  This is what he sleeps in every night :)  The Boppy is super helpful with nursing and as another place to lay him down.  He seems to like being in the Baby Bjorn carrier.  I’m also going to try out a friend’s Moby wrap.  Caleb doesn’t seem too impressed with the swing and bouncer yet… Hopefully soon! 
Oh! And we LOVE the SwaddleMe!  He’s really good at getting out of swaddles, so we had just stopped swaddling him.  During a particularly fussy night, I noticed that he would hit himself in the face when he would get startled (crazy flailing arms!) :)  So, we decided to try the SwaddleMe and he has done a long stretch overnight almost every night since then (about 10 days now).

Random Thoughts: Caleb LOVES his pacifier (MAM brand)!  It’s so funny to see him being a binky kid, considering how attached I was to mine when I was little haha… I’m excited to see him growing into his personality over the coming days/weeks/months, but he already seems so much older!  He gave me a big smile and a “coo” while I was talking to him on Saturday.  On Tuesday (technically in month 2, I guess), he got  a huge grin on his face and then stuck his tongue out… It was really funny :) 
I think Caleb will love the Johnny Jump Up in a few months… He kicks SO hard

I love his turtle bum :)

Mama Update:  I gained a total of 33 pounds during the pregnancy.  That was definitely more than I wanted to gain and it was frustrating for me at the time.  However, 1 month out, and I have lost 24 pounds.  I’m only 9 pounds over my pre-pregnancy weight.  I haven’t yet recovered enough to return to exercise (although I’ve gone for 1 walk and gone shopping a few times).  I’m looking forward to getting back to the Y.  Although the pounds have come off rather quickly, my shape is SO different.  I can get on a lot of my pre-pregnancy pants, but then I can’t button them :) So, that’s my next goal! (I haven't actually taken a follow up picture to compare the size of my belly... Maybe next month haha!  These pictures have been taken in the last month, though.) 

This was 1 week after he was born, going to an appointment.

I’m feeling a lot better than I felt when I first got home from the hospital.  Feeling much more like myself in terms of strength and energy (related to the blood loss).  I’m definitely eager for when I feel up to doing more, like I used to.  At my follow up midwife appointment this week, she told me it would probably be about another month before I feel up to exercising and having full days, etc. 

This was Caleb's 1 month "birthday," at a friend's baby shower.

Overall, we’re adjusting well to our new life :) Caleb BY FAR prefers to take his naps on me (we’ve tried the rock & play, the swing, the bouncer, the crib…).  So, hopefully he’ll like the Moby wrap so I can at least be a little more free to do things while he naps.  We’ve felt much less tired now that Caleb is doing a long stretch overnight.  We love him so much and it’s hard to imagine/remember what life was like without him.  I regularly find myself in tears because I just love him so much; it feels like my heart will burst!  Just little faces and noises he makes and so on.  He’s so great :)

This was Caleb's first Sunday in church.

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